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Win and Loss
Posted by Alastair in Uncategorized on April 7, 2009
I like to win, besides I think most people want to win. Because there is a special thing called self-respect in people’s mind. It is just the self-respect force people to make every effort to beat others in competitions. But do they really know what win and loss win? I’m not sure, but my opinions have changed a lot during my school career.
When I was young, I thought that win was to get the highest score in exams, win was to perform perfect in basketball or football matches, win was my family was richer than others’ which would make others embarrassed and disappointed, win was to let everyone around respect you in every aspect. Then you would be happy, and that’s just what the pursuit of life is. But, eventually, I found myself exhausted and hard-hearted but not happy. Maybe this kind of achievement is just someone’s pursuit, but I can realize that that’s not mine definitely. So I begin to think it over that what the true meaning of win and loss is.
Up to now, I have just begun to know that win is real a kind of achievement but not based on others. In other words, you feel excited for your own success, for the realization for your own dream, but not your strength than others. So it just may be a nice shoot in the game, or a higher score which means you’ve leant something new, or a warm family but not a rich one. Speaking of loss, it’s just a second name of win I think. Because through the colourful process, you can earn o lot to help win in the future. So you also should be happy.
Generally, I felt more and more freedom and excitement flow into my heart.

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